8th Sunday in Ordinary Time (Year C)
Ecclesiasticus 27:5-8 | Psalm 91(92):2-3,13-16 | 1 Corinthians 15:54-58 | Luke 6:39-45
In a shaken sieve the rubbish is left behind,
so too the defects of a man appear in his talk.
The kiln tests the work of the potter,
the test of a man is in his conversation.
The orchard where a tree grows is judged on the quality of its fruit,
similarly a man’s words betray what he feels.
Do not praise a man before he has spoken,
since this is the test of men.
Ecclesiasticus 27:5-8
All through this past week, I was metaphorically biting my tongue till it bled, pondering for hours on my response to various messages, from a minor misunderstanding to tricky arguments on spirituality and faith.
One of those disagreements was face-to-face, which ended with both parties unmoved…and me mentally exhausted from a dance of polite discourse that wasn’t returned.
It’s easy to see why many folks take on strident tones when conversing online, angrily pounding virtual tables with passionate and sometimes vulgar assertions. When we can’t see faces or hear voices, “cold objectivity” takes over with an attendant “YOU SHALL HEED MY WORDS, FOR I AM RIGHTEOUSLY CORRECT!“
And after quiet reflection, it’s become clear just how preachy I can get with my own choir members, insistently driving home the message of love and faith that I received from God…without taking into consideration that most everyone else, pained by their post-practice hunger pangs, were probably not in a receptive mood.
I really should ask myself the same question I imagine a thousand folks I face over my life ask me in their silence…
Why should I listen to you?
When I’m hungry and tired, and you’re standing there with yet more words, why would I be interested in what you have to say?
When I’m worried about my next meeting, or my buggy computer code, why would I care about God’s message from anyone, least of all you?
When my beloved mother/lover/pet is dying by painful inches, why would I believe your arrogant nonsense about how God loves us all?
I’d been wondering of late why I should continue my daily blogging. Today’s first reading just gave me new motivation to test myself, to keep sharing my faith and God’s love with others…but with an eye and ear inclined towards those with whom I communicate, carefully considering the message I’m sending…
…and not standing between a hungry horde and their lunch.